“Far from a Harvard student, just had the balls to do it”
"I’m C.E.O. and yeah good going God. I’m so indebted, I should have been deaded. Selling blow in the park, this I know in my heart. Now I’m so enlightened I might glow in the dark. I been up in the office you might know him as Clark But, just when you thought the whole world fell apart, I take off the blazer loosen up the tie, Step inside the booth Superman is alive… Kingdom come, Kingdom come"
"I'm not a businessman, I'm a BUSINESS, mannnn
So, Let me handle my BUSINESS, damn!"
‘I don’t sleep, keep one eye open like C-B-S’
“I’d rather die enormous than live dormant.”-
“No lie, just know I chose my own fate / I drove by the fork in the road and went straight”
“9 to 5 is how u survive, I aint trying to survive I’m trying to live it to the limit and love alive."
“I used to give a fuck, now I give a fuck less. What do I think of success? It sucks too much to stress.”
"I'm far from God, but I work god damn hard."
"Remind yourself. Nobody built like you, you design yourself."
“I never asked for nothing I don’t demand of myself
Honesty, loyalty, friends and then wealth
Death before dishonor and I tell you what else
I tighten my belt ‘fore I beg for help
Foolish pride is what held me together through the years
I wasn’t felt which is why I ain’t never played myself
I just play the hand I’m dealt, I can’t say I’ve never knelt
before God and asked for better cards at times to no avail
But I never sat back feeling sorry for myself
If you don’t give me heaven I’ll raise hell
‘Til it’s heaven"
Young entrepreneur, assiduous economist, and media innovator Hugo D. Aviles uses his site to share in detail his ideas, challenges and failures along the way. As he provides easy to digest advice, as well as, compelling inspirational stories to reinforce the importance of why working hard and smart is essential.
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Monday, October 10, 2011
Perseverance is more effective than brute strength...
“Now you can see, my friends and allies , that perseverance is more effective than brute strength, and that there are many difficulties that cannot be overcome if you try to do everything at once, but which will yield if you master them little by little. The truth is that steady continuous effort is irresistible, for this is the way in which Time captures and subdues the greatest powers on earth. Now Time, you should remember, is a good friend and ally to those who use their intelligence to choose the right moment, but a most dangerous enemy to those who rush into action at the wrong one.” –Life Of Sertorius, Plutarch, C. A. D. 46-120
Perseverance and passion are two congruent traits that one must possess in order to take on the world of business, love, and life. Take it from me, as a young immigrant turned entrepreneur, my blood flows with passion as I hate to lose. Whether it is in life, love, or business, I have grown to become a better man by accepting defeat as a way of life. On the contrary, I have trained my soul to turn defeat and failure into fuel.
Time and time again I am faced with exigent news, from family members battling cancer, to clients losing their shirts, and even matters of the heart. I too bleed when cut. Now in the war we call life, I have learned to compound my drive and anger into fuel that ignites my inner jets of perseverance. As the old saying states, “It is not how hard you fall, but how high you bounce back.”
As belief and vision are characteristics that one must definitely have in order to achieve greatness. Most importantly, one must believe in his/her self. It is when one has such a strong belief in his/her self that the doors of success will open. There will be times when your belief will be tested, I can promise you that, but your willpower has to be strong enough, that it turns your visions into reality.
We have all been told we couldn’t do something. Time and time again, I have been told that I couldn’t do this, and I couldn’t do that! It’s actually kind of ironic and entertaining now, because I have changed my reality, and my friends comments to, “Hugo, don’t do it!”
Life is definitely a gamble, and I personally thrive on the tingles it gives me. If life itself does not pump with passion from the heart to the veins, then what are you living for? Have you lost faith in the most important person in your life? Have you lost the vision to accomplish and attain all your personal goals and dreams?
If you have answered “yes” to any of the questions above, then you have officially been a victim of society! Society, in the states, is structured to keep you “inside the box”! The monetary policies and constitutional rights created by are great forefathers are constantly being modified and re-worded day by day. Allowing the freedoms that we once had, to languidly disappear. I know I am kind of transcending off topic, but I am kind of depressed about where this country is going….But to make a long story short, I am not giving up on MYSELF!!! So if this economy destroys itself, I am going to do my best to make sure that my family, friends, and close colleagues THRIVE! Because I still believe in all of YOU and most importantly ME!
In conclusion, it usually only takes me 15-20 minutes to write these memoirs, but my phones have not stopped ringing since 5:30 this morning!. And as I look at the time, I have to get back to work. Carpe Diem!
Perseverance and passion are two congruent traits that one must possess in order to take on the world of business, love, and life. Take it from me, as a young immigrant turned entrepreneur, my blood flows with passion as I hate to lose. Whether it is in life, love, or business, I have grown to become a better man by accepting defeat as a way of life. On the contrary, I have trained my soul to turn defeat and failure into fuel.
Time and time again I am faced with exigent news, from family members battling cancer, to clients losing their shirts, and even matters of the heart. I too bleed when cut. Now in the war we call life, I have learned to compound my drive and anger into fuel that ignites my inner jets of perseverance. As the old saying states, “It is not how hard you fall, but how high you bounce back.”
As belief and vision are characteristics that one must definitely have in order to achieve greatness. Most importantly, one must believe in his/her self. It is when one has such a strong belief in his/her self that the doors of success will open. There will be times when your belief will be tested, I can promise you that, but your willpower has to be strong enough, that it turns your visions into reality.
We have all been told we couldn’t do something. Time and time again, I have been told that I couldn’t do this, and I couldn’t do that! It’s actually kind of ironic and entertaining now, because I have changed my reality, and my friends comments to, “Hugo, don’t do it!”
Life is definitely a gamble, and I personally thrive on the tingles it gives me. If life itself does not pump with passion from the heart to the veins, then what are you living for? Have you lost faith in the most important person in your life? Have you lost the vision to accomplish and attain all your personal goals and dreams?
If you have answered “yes” to any of the questions above, then you have officially been a victim of society! Society, in the states, is structured to keep you “inside the box”! The monetary policies and constitutional rights created by are great forefathers are constantly being modified and re-worded day by day. Allowing the freedoms that we once had, to languidly disappear. I know I am kind of transcending off topic, but I am kind of depressed about where this country is going….But to make a long story short, I am not giving up on MYSELF!!! So if this economy destroys itself, I am going to do my best to make sure that my family, friends, and close colleagues THRIVE! Because I still believe in all of YOU and most importantly ME!
In conclusion, it usually only takes me 15-20 minutes to write these memoirs, but my phones have not stopped ringing since 5:30 this morning!. And as I look at the time, I have to get back to work. Carpe Diem!
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Capitalism demands the best of every man...
"Capitalism demands the best of every man – his rationality – and rewards him accordingly. It leaves every man free to choose the work he likes, to specialize in it, to trade his product for the products of others, and to go as far on the road of achievement as his ability and ambition will carry him."- Ayn Rand
The following piece advocates my personal views on the philosophy of Ayn Rand, as she pioneered the philosophy that helps support the rationality behind the manner for which capitalists hold themselves ethically accountable.
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In order for mankind to succeed, evolve, and flourish as a whole, ethics must be applied as a rational method of conceptual knowledge derived from its values. For Objectivism, is based on the reason for which everyone holds beliefs consciously or unconsciously and gives rise to a constant, at least, or subconscious set of principles.
As ethics is an objective metaphysical necessity of mans survival. "Not by the grace of the supernatural nor of your neighbors nor of your whims but by the grace of reality and the nature of life."
Ayn Rand writes.....It is the ideology of Objective Ethics that holds man’s life accountable to its standards of value and his own individual life as the ethical aspiration of every individual man. For man has to be man by choice and it is the task of ethics to teach him how to live like man.
In order for us to have a more transparent understanding on the rational philosophy of ethics, one must first begin by asking the question; what are values? It is man that must make the rational choice and hold accountability towards its own actions by answering the question above in a way that integrates his actions in congruence to his personal values, beliefs, goals, and standards. For upon answering the following ethical virtues at hand, he can than obtain final fulfillment by enjoying the ultimate value, the end in itself which is his own life.
Now one must understand that to speak of “value” as apart from “life” is highly antagonist. For it is the conceptualization of “life” that makes the abstraction of “value” existent. Which leads us to the psychology of pleasure in regards to the state of enjoyment in “life’.
Ayn Rand writes......In order to live, man must take the initiative to achieve his values. In essence pleasure and enjoyment act as an emotional reward for successful execution and an incentive to achieving desired results. Thus in letting man experience, in his own person the sense that life is a value and that he is a value, pleasure serves as the emotional fuel of mans existence.
......Which leads us to the living entity that “is” which determines what the “ought” does. As the capacity to experience pleasure or pain is innate in a man’s body’ it is part of his nature, part of the entity he is. He has no choice about it, and he has no choice about the standard that determines what will make him experience the physical sensation about pleasure or of pain. What is that standard? His Life!
This ideology further dictates that man’s actions and existence require the admonition of conceptual values derived from conceptual knowledge. In essence, conceptual knowledge cannot be obtained automatically. Therefore, man has no automatic code of survival that makes him pursue values automatically, as man has no automatic set of values. Mans own consciousness must conceive what is right from wrong and good from evil. Just like a computer, which his own mind has to program, and the programming is corresponded by the values his mind embraces as a rational reality.
The following conviction of using one’s own consciousness on the implication of ethics itself is quite intriguing. As the term “conceptualizing” further supports the integration of every event and every observation into a conceptual context. This process is known as “reason”, which further dictates the evolution of how man thinks, and thinking requires a state of full focused awareness. Hence an unfocused mind is not conscious.
Objectivist Ethics holds man’s life accountable to his own choices, for he must choose his actions, values and goals by the standard for which he chooses to live his own life.
Ayn Rand writes.....According to this process, values is that which one acts to gain/or keep –virtue is the act by which one gains and/or keeps it. The three cardinal values of the Objective Ethics- the three values which, together are the means to and the realization of one’s ultimate value, one’s own life-are: Reason, Purpose, Self Esteem, with their three corresponding virtues: Rationality, Productiveness, Pride.
The virtue of Pride can be described by the term: “moral ambitiousness.” It is this virtue that recognizes the fact “that as man must produce the physical values he needs to sustain his life, so he must acquire the values of character that make his life worth living.” That he develops a self reliant attitude, and acquires ones own wealth himself alone, it is only than that he luster qualities of a self made soul.
This self reliant mentality accepts the fact that one’s own judgments are formed by one’s own mind. Denouncing the ideology of mysticism and rejecting all non-rational and supernatural sources of knowledge, such as religion and faith. It means that one must never sacrifice one's convictions to the opinions or wishes of others. Furthermore, acting independently and self reliant.
This self reliant attitude is also embraced by the social principle of Objectivist Ethics. As man must live for his own sake, neither sacrificing himself to others nor sacrificing others to himself.
Ayn Rand writes.....To live for his own sake means that the achievement of his own happiness is mans highest moral purpose. In psychology terms, the issue of mans survival does not confront his consciousness as an issue of “life or death,” but as an issue of “happiness or suffering.” Happiness is the successful state of life; suffering is the warning signal of failure, of death.
The subjectivist theory of ethics acts as a negation not merely of mans existence but of all existence. This negation constitutes our current state of immoral culture as it undermines values and gives man a blank check on reality. Such thought that man needs no objective principles of action to live bye, gives mankind the freedom to get away with anything. As long as he determines what is justified to be right from wrong and good from evil contingent upon his own reasoning.
The following three schools of ethical theory are anti life, not merely in composition, but also in their formula of conceptualization. When put into practice, the Dark Ages and the Middle Ages are a transcendent example of mystic theory. Nazi Germany and Soviet Russia are a brutal example of social theory, and the present state of our culture is a proficient example of subjectivist theory.
In conclusion, Objectivism declares that man can survive and achieve happiness only by the pursuit and means of rationality. As Objectivism holds reason to be mans greatest and most admirable virtue. It is the products of man’s reasoning and achievements that help us survive, live, and thrive today. Hence the virtue of rationality gives rise to independent thought, integrity, and productivity. Therefore, by concluding that it is moral to act in ones rational self interest, our society progresses, and life moves on.
Bibliography
Rand, A. (1964). The Virtues of Selfishness. New York: New American Library.
The following piece advocates my personal views on the philosophy of Ayn Rand, as she pioneered the philosophy that helps support the rationality behind the manner for which capitalists hold themselves ethically accountable.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
In order for mankind to succeed, evolve, and flourish as a whole, ethics must be applied as a rational method of conceptual knowledge derived from its values. For Objectivism, is based on the reason for which everyone holds beliefs consciously or unconsciously and gives rise to a constant, at least, or subconscious set of principles.
As ethics is an objective metaphysical necessity of mans survival. "Not by the grace of the supernatural nor of your neighbors nor of your whims but by the grace of reality and the nature of life."
Ayn Rand writes.....It is the ideology of Objective Ethics that holds man’s life accountable to its standards of value and his own individual life as the ethical aspiration of every individual man. For man has to be man by choice and it is the task of ethics to teach him how to live like man.
In order for us to have a more transparent understanding on the rational philosophy of ethics, one must first begin by asking the question; what are values? It is man that must make the rational choice and hold accountability towards its own actions by answering the question above in a way that integrates his actions in congruence to his personal values, beliefs, goals, and standards. For upon answering the following ethical virtues at hand, he can than obtain final fulfillment by enjoying the ultimate value, the end in itself which is his own life.
Now one must understand that to speak of “value” as apart from “life” is highly antagonist. For it is the conceptualization of “life” that makes the abstraction of “value” existent. Which leads us to the psychology of pleasure in regards to the state of enjoyment in “life’.
Ayn Rand writes......In order to live, man must take the initiative to achieve his values. In essence pleasure and enjoyment act as an emotional reward for successful execution and an incentive to achieving desired results. Thus in letting man experience, in his own person the sense that life is a value and that he is a value, pleasure serves as the emotional fuel of mans existence.
......Which leads us to the living entity that “is” which determines what the “ought” does. As the capacity to experience pleasure or pain is innate in a man’s body’ it is part of his nature, part of the entity he is. He has no choice about it, and he has no choice about the standard that determines what will make him experience the physical sensation about pleasure or of pain. What is that standard? His Life!
This ideology further dictates that man’s actions and existence require the admonition of conceptual values derived from conceptual knowledge. In essence, conceptual knowledge cannot be obtained automatically. Therefore, man has no automatic code of survival that makes him pursue values automatically, as man has no automatic set of values. Mans own consciousness must conceive what is right from wrong and good from evil. Just like a computer, which his own mind has to program, and the programming is corresponded by the values his mind embraces as a rational reality.
The following conviction of using one’s own consciousness on the implication of ethics itself is quite intriguing. As the term “conceptualizing” further supports the integration of every event and every observation into a conceptual context. This process is known as “reason”, which further dictates the evolution of how man thinks, and thinking requires a state of full focused awareness. Hence an unfocused mind is not conscious.
Objectivist Ethics holds man’s life accountable to his own choices, for he must choose his actions, values and goals by the standard for which he chooses to live his own life.
Ayn Rand writes.....According to this process, values is that which one acts to gain/or keep –virtue is the act by which one gains and/or keeps it. The three cardinal values of the Objective Ethics- the three values which, together are the means to and the realization of one’s ultimate value, one’s own life-are: Reason, Purpose, Self Esteem, with their three corresponding virtues: Rationality, Productiveness, Pride.
The virtue of Pride can be described by the term: “moral ambitiousness.” It is this virtue that recognizes the fact “that as man must produce the physical values he needs to sustain his life, so he must acquire the values of character that make his life worth living.” That he develops a self reliant attitude, and acquires ones own wealth himself alone, it is only than that he luster qualities of a self made soul.
This self reliant mentality accepts the fact that one’s own judgments are formed by one’s own mind. Denouncing the ideology of mysticism and rejecting all non-rational and supernatural sources of knowledge, such as religion and faith. It means that one must never sacrifice one's convictions to the opinions or wishes of others. Furthermore, acting independently and self reliant.
This self reliant attitude is also embraced by the social principle of Objectivist Ethics. As man must live for his own sake, neither sacrificing himself to others nor sacrificing others to himself.
Ayn Rand writes.....To live for his own sake means that the achievement of his own happiness is mans highest moral purpose. In psychology terms, the issue of mans survival does not confront his consciousness as an issue of “life or death,” but as an issue of “happiness or suffering.” Happiness is the successful state of life; suffering is the warning signal of failure, of death.
The subjectivist theory of ethics acts as a negation not merely of mans existence but of all existence. This negation constitutes our current state of immoral culture as it undermines values and gives man a blank check on reality. Such thought that man needs no objective principles of action to live bye, gives mankind the freedom to get away with anything. As long as he determines what is justified to be right from wrong and good from evil contingent upon his own reasoning.
The following three schools of ethical theory are anti life, not merely in composition, but also in their formula of conceptualization. When put into practice, the Dark Ages and the Middle Ages are a transcendent example of mystic theory. Nazi Germany and Soviet Russia are a brutal example of social theory, and the present state of our culture is a proficient example of subjectivist theory.
In conclusion, Objectivism declares that man can survive and achieve happiness only by the pursuit and means of rationality. As Objectivism holds reason to be mans greatest and most admirable virtue. It is the products of man’s reasoning and achievements that help us survive, live, and thrive today. Hence the virtue of rationality gives rise to independent thought, integrity, and productivity. Therefore, by concluding that it is moral to act in ones rational self interest, our society progresses, and life moves on.
Bibliography
Rand, A. (1964). The Virtues of Selfishness. New York: New American Library.
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
We are managers of our own careers...
“If I hadn't had the talent, the networks wouldn't have televised my fights. No one has made me; I made myself. I paid my dues.” -Sugar Ray Leonard
In the boxing ring of life, it takes more than courage and stamina to win the big fight. One must have the mental toughness to realize that it’s just you, and the other opponent. It just happens that the opponent sizing you up on the other corner is, “LIFE”. As always, I tend to correlate life and business with war and athletics, because in all actuality, the two go hand and hand.
Like all warriors in the past, Sugar Ray Leonard was a contender. A killer in the boxing ring and the business world, Sugar Ray was one of the first boxers to ever “SELF PROMOTE,“ pay back his investors after his first fight, and become a millionaire within the first year of turning a professional. He realized that his abilities and talents were governed by his own hands, and therefore made the decision early on in his career to manage himself.
The reason why I bring up this example, is because of the simple fact that, “We are managers of our own careers.” We are all given some sort of skill in life. Sugar Ray’s just happens to be beating up on people. What’s yours?
“To be the best, you need to spend hours and hours and hours running, hitting the speed bag, lifting weights and focusing on training. Nothing in boxing comes easy, and the same rule applies to life!” Sugar Ray
As Sugar states, “nothing in life comes easy.” Time and time again, I take the time to study warriors, philosophers, generals, and great leaders, before me, in order to remind me that I’m not alone in this world. As I look back and analyze my own life, I have come to the realization that I have spent countless hours, days and nights, “PAYING MY DUES!”
Through the years, the fire inside me has grown and compounded immensely. This ambition has also acted as a double edge sword, as I have personally lost the ones I love because of it. Through the years, I have also learned to control my hunger, and have developed time management traits to fit in, “FAMILY AND FRIEND TIME” in between schedules. I guess that’s just a part of what we call, “BECOMING AN ADULT!”
In conclusion, in the never-ending fight we call life, one must have the courage to fight, when all others have been knocked out. I think Sugary says it best, ”I want my fights to be seen as plays that have a beginning, a middle, and an end.” ……and round one has just begun..
In the boxing ring of life, it takes more than courage and stamina to win the big fight. One must have the mental toughness to realize that it’s just you, and the other opponent. It just happens that the opponent sizing you up on the other corner is, “LIFE”. As always, I tend to correlate life and business with war and athletics, because in all actuality, the two go hand and hand.
Like all warriors in the past, Sugar Ray Leonard was a contender. A killer in the boxing ring and the business world, Sugar Ray was one of the first boxers to ever “SELF PROMOTE,“ pay back his investors after his first fight, and become a millionaire within the first year of turning a professional. He realized that his abilities and talents were governed by his own hands, and therefore made the decision early on in his career to manage himself.
The reason why I bring up this example, is because of the simple fact that, “We are managers of our own careers.” We are all given some sort of skill in life. Sugar Ray’s just happens to be beating up on people. What’s yours?
“To be the best, you need to spend hours and hours and hours running, hitting the speed bag, lifting weights and focusing on training. Nothing in boxing comes easy, and the same rule applies to life!” Sugar Ray
As Sugar states, “nothing in life comes easy.” Time and time again, I take the time to study warriors, philosophers, generals, and great leaders, before me, in order to remind me that I’m not alone in this world. As I look back and analyze my own life, I have come to the realization that I have spent countless hours, days and nights, “PAYING MY DUES!”
Through the years, the fire inside me has grown and compounded immensely. This ambition has also acted as a double edge sword, as I have personally lost the ones I love because of it. Through the years, I have also learned to control my hunger, and have developed time management traits to fit in, “FAMILY AND FRIEND TIME” in between schedules. I guess that’s just a part of what we call, “BECOMING AN ADULT!”
In conclusion, in the never-ending fight we call life, one must have the courage to fight, when all others have been knocked out. I think Sugary says it best, ”I want my fights to be seen as plays that have a beginning, a middle, and an end.” ……and round one has just begun..
Monday, October 3, 2011
There is no failure except in no longer trying...
"In one of the decisive battles of World War I, disastrous reports poured into the headquarters of Marshal Foch, the commander of the Allied forces. The great general never lost heart. When things were at their worst, he drafted his famous order which is now in all textbooks of military strategy: "My center is giving way, my right is pushed back, my left is wavering. The situation is excellent. I shall attack!" – James Keller
Whether it is in business, love, or even life. There is no failure except in no longer trying. As great works are accomplished, not by strength, but by perseverance. History tells us that almost all great leaders have been pushed to some point of insanity. This insanity accompanies the ideology that death, and the anxiety we call fear, are no longer an option. It is at this brink that man realizes the simple fact that it is all or nothing. In military strategy, while cornered and under heavy attack, there is only one option…..TO FIGHT!
"You might as well stand and fight because if you run, you will only die tired" - Vern Jocque - Sei Shin Kan.
Through the years I have personally been under intense forms of duress. From matters of the heart to business ventures, the variable we call life…constantly pays its dividends. For wisdom is not an admirable trait that is given, it is a pint of sweat that is earned via the tortures from the Gods of success.
As the bible states in Proverbs 24:16 “For a righteous man falls seven times, and rises again.” Hence, history has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encounter heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats.
In a book written in 1960, by Eleanor Roosevelt, titled “You Learn By Living” , she states the following on courage;
The encouraging thing is that every time you meet a situation, though you may think at the time it is an impossibility and you go through the tortures of the damned, once you have met it and lived through it you find that forever after you are freer than you ever were before. If you can live through that you can live through anything. You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, `I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' The anger lies in refusing to face the fear, in not daring to come to grips with it. If you fail anywhere along the line, it will take away your confidence. You must make yourself succeed every time. You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
In conclusion, through the days I have the pleasure to speak to several friends, family members, clients, and colleagues whom all face the constant dogma we call stress. As this anxiety compounds into all of our daily agendas, we must learn to harness its energy and reflect it towards a more productive state. Furthermore, “In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins-not trough strength but by perseverance.”-Jackson Brown
Whether it is in business, love, or even life. There is no failure except in no longer trying. As great works are accomplished, not by strength, but by perseverance. History tells us that almost all great leaders have been pushed to some point of insanity. This insanity accompanies the ideology that death, and the anxiety we call fear, are no longer an option. It is at this brink that man realizes the simple fact that it is all or nothing. In military strategy, while cornered and under heavy attack, there is only one option…..TO FIGHT!
"You might as well stand and fight because if you run, you will only die tired" - Vern Jocque - Sei Shin Kan.
Through the years I have personally been under intense forms of duress. From matters of the heart to business ventures, the variable we call life…constantly pays its dividends. For wisdom is not an admirable trait that is given, it is a pint of sweat that is earned via the tortures from the Gods of success.
As the bible states in Proverbs 24:16 “For a righteous man falls seven times, and rises again.” Hence, history has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encounter heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats.
In a book written in 1960, by Eleanor Roosevelt, titled “You Learn By Living” , she states the following on courage;
The encouraging thing is that every time you meet a situation, though you may think at the time it is an impossibility and you go through the tortures of the damned, once you have met it and lived through it you find that forever after you are freer than you ever were before. If you can live through that you can live through anything. You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, `I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' The anger lies in refusing to face the fear, in not daring to come to grips with it. If you fail anywhere along the line, it will take away your confidence. You must make yourself succeed every time. You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
In conclusion, through the days I have the pleasure to speak to several friends, family members, clients, and colleagues whom all face the constant dogma we call stress. As this anxiety compounds into all of our daily agendas, we must learn to harness its energy and reflect it towards a more productive state. Furthermore, “In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins-not trough strength but by perseverance.”-Jackson Brown
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Knowledge is the means of survival...
"Nothing is given to a man on earth except a potential and the material on which to actualize it. The potential is a superlative machine: his consciousness; but it is a machine without a spark plug, a machine of which his own will has to be the spark plug, the self starter and the driver; he has to discover how to use it and he has to keep it in constant action. The material is the whole of the universe, with no limits set to the knowledge he can acquire and to the enjoyment of life he can achieve. But everything he needs or desires has to be learned, discovered and produced by him-by his own choice, by his own effort, by his own mind." -Ayn Rand
Friday, September 30, 2011
Nothing of value comes without being earned...
"What appeared to be hard work to others was simply playing for me. We were playing a game. Why not play as hard as you can? There's no pressure in taking that approach. Play to win. Why else would you play?" -Michael Jordan
An excerpt written by Michael Jordan from his book Driven From Within….
When my play started providing me with rewards, then I wanted to prove I deserved them. I never felt the desire to rest on what I had accomplished. I never felt like I deserved to rest on what I had accomplished. I never felt like I deserved to drive a Bentley when I got my first contract, or live in a mansion. Those things might be symbols of success to some people, but there are a lot of people who confuse symbols with actual success.
What’s left after you get all the money and buy the best car? There’s nowhere to go from there.
When we won one championship, then I wanted to win two in a row. When we won two, then I wanted to win three in a row because Larry and Magic never won three straight.
Nothing of value comes without being earned.
That’s why great leaders are those who lead by example first, you can’t demand respect because of a title or position and expect people to follow. That might work for a little while, but in the long run people respond to what they see. They might even listen, but they usually will act based on the actions of the person talking. If the CEO skips out early on Fridays, then he or she has sent a message that tells everyone else they can do the same. I practiced hard every day because I wanted every one of my teammates to know what I expected out of myself. If I took a day off, then I knew they would, too.
Just like my high school coach, Clifton “Pop”, Hering, used to say: “It’s hard, but it’s fair.”
I LIVE BY THOSE WORDS.
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